48. One thought you must avoid immediately, if you want that girl.
During my PUA workshops with Mumbai guys I have realized that the biggest problem they face while dealing with girls is not that they have very high opinion of girls, it is that they have very low opinion about themselves. I respect woman and I love them. I believe they are flawless species and they are really beautiful but I never praise them on the cost of demeaning my own personality. They are good, beautiful there is no doubt about that but that does not make you any lesser. One of my students who is an author, an MBA graduate, a highly salaried manager in a highly-reputed law firm and winner of multiple awards, a motivational speaker and a successful man, calls me one day and shares a nugget of his life’s personal problem with me, it was about a girl he was crazy about. She was his girlfriend for a little while, then they broke over some family matter and now she has blocked him from everywhere, I mean literally blocked him, on phone, on facebook everywhere. He despera...